Possessiveness
It is evening leisure time. Nisha, the home-maker is watching T V Serials, sitting on bamboo chair, looking off and on through the window at the compound-gate. It was her husband's usual time to come home from office.
It is six 'o' clock. Nithin comes home after his official work.
Nisha takes his mobile and checks the incoming numbers. "Whose number is this? she asked at once.She has seen a new number and her enquiry has begun.
"Don't know, some missed call was there. So I called back. It was wrong number. Husband said in a normal way. It didn't seem he has given much importance to that.
Wife is not satisfied with the answer given by her husband. Again she checked and searched all the missed call numbers but did not find that number in missed call list. Again she asked about it.
"Many missed call I had today. Mostly that number might have been deleted" husband said impatiently. He is much irritated by wife's enquiry.
Wife does not seem to leave this matter there only.
She rang the new number. "Hello", unfortunately she heard a lady's voice on the other side. At once she cut the line.
"I know you are hiding something from me. Come on, tell me. whose number is this? Who is she? " Wife started besieging queries doubtfully.
Poor-thing her husband does not know whose number is that. what all he said was true. He got a missed call. he called back. It was wrong number. That's all.
But wife is not ready to believe it. She started asking more and more questions. Again and again she asked the same questions. Husband was fed up giving same answers.
Husband was so much disgusted that he stopped talking with his wife. He stopped spending time at home. He started coming home late night and left home early morning.
This is the bad effect of too much possessiveness.
All of us know, possessiveness is one of the basic qualities of woman. She takes care of her husband. All most all wives have possessiveness. 'He is mine. He is only my husband.' This is real possessiveness. A woman has a lot of love towards her husband. A woman takes sentimental care of her husband. In this context, no one should question her possessiveness.
Even men like their wives to be possessive about them but her possessiveness should be filled with love and care.
Possessiveness should have a limit. If it crosses beyond limit men become impatient. If every time wife asks questions doubtfully, it gives way to his suppressed feelings.
Men like freedom. It is their basic quality. sometimes too much such irritations makes him to avoid his wife He will be impatient and she may lose him.
Hence be possessive in good sense.
Indu Naik
